Saturday, February 13, 2010
How to put the perfect smile on her face
The love month is coming, and surely enough, almost all of us want the perfect moment, in a perfect place, with the perfect date, on the perfect day. Sadly, the quest for perfection requires a lot more than just blending in with what everybody else does. If you want this day to be perfect, then you have to be extraordinary.
Being extraordinary doesn't mean that you have to be public with what you do. Most women are uncomfortable with public displays. You just have to be subtle with what you do. It's not easy to sweep someone off their feet. Timing helps. Spontaneity adds to the drama - but whatever you do, these things won't work unless you have a sincere agenda of making her happy.
I have a few suggestions, some of which i have tried before - and i guarantee, that with the right timing and the right words, you'll see the perfect smile on her face.
Music Covers - The Mixed tape is out. Dedicating videos on youtube is totally out. Now, if you can make your own version of her favorite songs, that would be unique. Regardless if you do a good cover or not, the effort itself will be enough. Music videos are in too. Make a fool out of yourself by filming yourself while lipsynching her favorite songs. Who knows, she might like it. :D
Puzzles - It's a little hard for women to take you seriously, especially when you're perceived as a laid-back type of guy. You might want to express how serious you are by exerting a little more effort into what you do. Let's say you're planning to ask her out on a date. Slip a little puzzle into which the answer/conclusion whatever is making an impression on you asking her out. It's a little act that goes unnoticed, but it will hopefully change their impressions on you.
Birthday Greeting Stunt - let's say you're looking for some place to eat, go to a restaurant that has a birthday routine - the routine some restos have, where the staff will sing a birthday song, probably acting out their routine, in a surprise for their customer. This works better if that day is NOT her birthday. Now, there might not be a smile at her face at first, but the initial reaction - PRICELESS.
Roses - Now, this is probably the cheapest, but by far the most effective thing that you can purchase as far as cost and effect is concerned. For some reason, I really don't understand why girls love roses.. I am only sure that it works. Roses symbolize something in our subconscious that is relatively difficult to explain. Make that vague impression an advantage. For the dramatic effect, I suggest that you find creative ways on giving your roses. Do a magic trick. Slip it inside her bag. Close her eyes and give her the rose. Have the security guard give it for you. Send it on a paper plane. Attach notes to it such as "Just because it's tuesday" or other stuff. Make gift stuffings out of petals. Send it through a toy car. Have your mom give it for you (haha) - any of these things will do. As long as it's creative, it will work.
Spontaneous Trips - This is possible if you own a car. If you're in for a night out, the beach would probably be a nice place to stay. Just laying in the sand, and if possible, you can create a bonfire for the two of you. I tried this before and i should say that the serene silence of the sea, with only the waves creating sound, it creates a perfect setting for a romantic evening.
Amusement Parks - The Enchanted Kingdom is at the top of the list on this one. Again, timing is everything. You might want to catch the fireworks. I think it's at 9pm. You can set up the perfect view by riding the wheel while watching the fireworks. And who knows, you might get kissed. ayiii XD
Live Bands/Concerts - This is a common thing among gimikeros, but for those who are just above the legal age *bang* this will be the perfect opportunity for you guys to enjoy your favorite bands performing live. You can make a more dramatic outcome for this if she doesn't have a clue about where you're going.
And lastly, don't forget to give her a flower every now and then. . Try giving her a rose on February 15 - It reminds her that you don't need a special day to remind her that she is special (only if you're sincere about it though).
I kept the best ones for myself. haha! who knows, I might use it someday.
I hope these suggestions helped you. Have a good day and happy lovin! :D
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